HE LIFTS US UP: The LIGHT of the World

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Many are broken,
hurting or depressed.
Wounded by abuses,
with memories repressed.
Surrounded by darkness,
deep in a pit alone.
Right where Satan wants them,
where no Light is shone.
Many negative thoughts,
he plants in their head.
Making them think they’re crazy,
or possibly want to be dead.
But in Jesus’ Presence,
there is The Light.
He reveals the Truth,
giving all new sight.
For in His Presence,
all evil must flee!
For Jesus’ breaks chains,
and sets all of us free.
His Light shines in us,
when we let Him in,
turning from Satan
as our new lives begin.
The light of the world,
is what we’re called to be.
So let our light shine,
and make all darkness flee.

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Inspirational Song for Today: Blessings

The Abuse Expose' with Secret Angel

As I plan to visit some domestic violence survivors today, I want to share a song that is dear to my heart from an abusive period in my life. There were years that I could not even listen to this song because of the aching in my heart and soul. The tears would just pour uncontrollably because of my own brokenness.

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Happy Father’s Day to All

The Abuse Expose' with Secret Angel

This is for the men and women…
who have lead a double role…
for as “father” and “mother”…
many difficulties go untold.

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“Daddy Wounds”

The Abuse Expose' with Secret Angel

“Daddy Wounds”…
is a term I’ve come to hear.
It’s wounds of abuse and neglect…
by a person who should be dear.
Many people have them…
as fathers neglect their child.
With various degrees of brokenness…
from severe to seemingly mild.

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Reuniting with your alienated child – a spring message of hope

Karen Woodall

This week has been something of a milestone in my work with alienated children and their parents and, whilst it has been a somewhat exhausting week, I wanted to pick up my pen and write a few lines of hope for all parents coping with living apart from their children.

My working week began with sessions between older children and their dads, children who are now on the cusp of adulthood and who have reconnected with their fathers after seeking them out.

Thank goodness for Facebook is all I can say.  This social media, unknown to us only a decade ago, appears to be responsible for an increasing number of what are called ‘spontaneous reunifications.’ Spontaneous reunification is when a child comes out of the alienated state of their own volition and actively seeks to restore the relationship with a lost parent.  And Facebook appears to be playing a huge…

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Why Kids Usually Side with the Custodial Parent, Especially if They’re Emotionally Abusive

The Long Term Effects of Parental Alienation

“Emotionally and/or physically abusive women and men are scary when on the attack, which probably makes it all the more confusing to see your ex turn your child(ren) against you. Don’t your kids see how out of whack their mom or dad is being? Don’t they know that you love them and how much you want to be in their lives? Don’t they realize they need you now more than ever? Yes and no.

On some level, they do know this. Nonetheless, they’re lashing out at you like mini-versions of your ex. Why?

It’s not that confusing if you think about it from a child’s perspective. Children depend utterly upon their custodial parent. Seeing mom or dad lose it and out of control is anxiety provoking, if not downright terrifying. The following are possible reasons why your ex’s campaign of parental alienation may be successful.

1. You left them alone…

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Alienated Child Whispering

Karen Woodall

I work with alienated children, I know them well. I work with them when they are alienated and fiercely determined not to see a parent and I work with them through and beyond reunification towards a place of psychological balance. This year so far I have undertaken seven reunifications with fifteen children and all have been successful. None have used force, all have utilised the reconfiguration of the dynamics around the child via the legal system with a subsequent quiet and peaceful encounter with the rejected parent. What I know about reunification of children is that it is not a mystery, it is not a magic wand and it is not something which is within the skills range of only a few people. Anyone can reunify a child if they understand how to work counter-intuitively and are sensitive the alienated child’s way of speaking.  To do this one has to…

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Quote: When a toxic person can no longer control you …..

The Long Term Effects of Parental Alienation

When a toxic person can no longer control you, they will try to control how others see you.  The misinformation will seem unfair, but stay above it, trusting that other people will eventually see the truth, just like you did.

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Co-Parenting With A Narcissist: When Your Ex Is The Enemy It Can Be A Nightmare

The Long Term Effects of Parental Alienation

Co-parenting with a narcissist is no picnic for any reasonable, rational person. Often, it can feel like you are literally trying to raise children with your worst enemy.

How do you identify a narcissistic ex? There is no one checklist but here are a few things that could tip you off that you are co-parenting with a narcissist:

1. You find it totally impossible to communicate with this person due to their unreasonable, irrational, unyielding and obtuse behavior.
2. You constantly feel like you are being manipulated into compromising your values and opinions in order to get anywhere with the situation.
3. You are co-parenting with a narcissist if you constantly feel that you are in a power struggle where you always emerge feeling powerless and dominated by this person.
4. You find this person to be totally uncompassionate and lacking empathy.
5. You feel like you and the kids are being emotionally abused by…

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ONE OF MY MOST TOUCHING MOMENTS!!!

The Abuse Expose' with Secret Angel

(OK….This will be the shortest and sweetest post ever.)

One of my most touching moments!!!

Getting a text from one of my children (while with their father) telling me,

“Happy Father’s Day, MOM!!!”

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