The primary mistake with abusers

Parental Alienation

The primary mistake with abusers is to reinforce their victim identity by:

  • Emphasizingchildhoodor other experiences in which they were mistreated
  • Validating their resentment andangeras “appropriate,” which validates the distorted perspectives that go with anger and resentment
  • Reinforcing their sense of entitlement —they should be respected, which, to them, means their partners must submit
  • Confronting them inshame-inducing ways, before they learn to regulate shame with compassion

The primary mistake with victims is urging them to think and sound like abusers.

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About madisonelizabethbaylis

Father of Kevin, Jenvey and Maddie. Being alienated from Maddie due to the fact that after her mother divorced me and remarried she cut me out of my daughter´s life. I then rekindled my relationship with the mother of my boys and since then Melissa is hell bend on allienating and abusing Maddie
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