Understanding The Triangulating Alienated Child

Karen Woodall

One of the most difficult people  to understand in the alienation drama is the triangulating alienated child.  This child is one I have come to know as the proxy alienator, the person through whom the family is controlled or alternatively kept in chaos which in itself is another form of control.

Triangles and triangulation is an essential behaviour which anyone facing alienation from a child should know about.  Triangulation is the use of a third person not present to strengthen the control a person has over someone else.  A good example of triangulation is the use of the parent the child does not live with in a discussion with you about things they are allowed to do at that parent’s home.  The purpose of the triangulation of that parent into your discussion is to put pressure upon you to feel inadequate or wrong in some way so that your parenting…

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About madisonelizabethbaylis

Father of Kevin, Jenvey and Maddie. Being alienated from Maddie due to the fact that after her mother divorced me and remarried she cut me out of my daughter´s life. I then rekindled my relationship with the mother of my boys and since then Melissa is hell bend on allienating and abusing Maddie
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