Emotionally abusive relationships: Survivors of narcissistic parents – Counselling Directory

Parental Alienation

Emotionally abusive parents are manipulative, cunning and toxic. Brilliant impersonators these narcissistic fakes create a world of “alternative facts”. Abused children wear cloaks woven with invisible scars inflicted by the parents’ permanent smear campaigns. Myths follow into adulthood: “difficult, crazy, oversensitive, problem” child, doing “it” for “attention” or “she/he tells lies” or possesses a “big imagination”. Scapegoatingis reinforced by siblings falling into the “rescuer” trap.The belief is created that the child fabricated everything and is responsible for“upsetting”the“heroic”parents. Such positing subjugates the child into submissive gratitude for even existing, feeling confused, humiliated, angry and filled with self-doubt.

Spiteful, jealous and resentful, the abusive parent mocks the child, comparing with a [fake] image they hold of themselves.The child feels unacceptable in basic ways. Belittling, condescending and hurtful: “When I was your age, I could…”…

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About madisonelizabethbaylis

Father of Kevin, Jenvey and Maddie. Being alienated from Maddie due to the fact that after her mother divorced me and remarried she cut me out of my daughter´s life. I then rekindled my relationship with the mother of my boys and since then Melissa is hell bend on allienating and abusing Maddie
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