I don’t know if people can ever make ‘peace’ with parental alienation. How could they? To make peace is to say that your child picked the other parent, but that’s okay. It’s to say my parent/s pitted me against the other, but I’m okay. How can you forgive if they aren’t sorry?
And isn’t forgiveness ultimately making peace with passive aggressive pride?
To say ‘I forgive you’ to someone who isn’t sorry is to say, ‘I know you’re wrong even if you don’t, and I know it’s not your fault because I’m a bigger (better) person.’ And because you convince yourself that you are, you pretend the sincerity is peace.
There is no peace when you can no longer trust your judgement.