Parental Alienation

At given times during our lives, Narcissists and often parental alienators are

all around us and they have the uncanny ability to really push our buttons.

To understand them, we must know how they use their cogitative skills in

order to not be harmed by them.

NPAs use similar abusive tactics as “Invalidators,” a term coined by Jay

Carter Ph.D. in his book Nasty People: How to Stop Being Hurt by Them

without Stooping to Their Level. These individuals have a burning desire to

control every aspect of the target parent’s relationship with their child(ren)

and employ underhanded methods: uncertainty, projection, generalization,

judgment, manipulation, sneak attack, double en tendre, cutting off commu-
nication, buildup, tear down, and double binding.

Like the parental alienator, the “narcissist will keep their victims in a

constant state of uncertainty” (Carter, 2003, pp. 7–9). They will rarely give

you an answer—just a vague response minus…

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About madisonelizabethbaylis

Father of Kevin, Jenvey and Maddie. Being alienated from Maddie due to the fact that after her mother divorced me and remarried she cut me out of my daughter´s life. I then rekindled my relationship with the mother of my boys and since then Melissa is hell bend on allienating and abusing Maddie
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