You know how difficult it is to explain to people this is what Melissa did to me, she would show up at places that I did not even tell her i was going to be at, then get rude because i did not talk to her, even after the divorce, she would go mad if a friend just thank me for doing something for them. Even though she divorced me and oved on to husband 3
Stalking and the lethality assessment were topics that were presented at a recent domestic violence conference. There is a direct correlation with stalking and the lethal behaviors of these stalkers. Check out this lethality assessment and see where you stand.Stalking in domestic violence…is a definite reality.And it’s an important aspect…for it’s tied to lethality.For 1 in 4 victims are abused…and a high number are killed…by someone with distorted reality…of a relationship unfulfilled.And it’s a narcissistic tendency…that they are never wrong…leading stalkers to cross boundaries…believing this victim to them belong.With use of drugs and alcohol…and access to weapons too.And episodes of violent rage…with threats to kill him and you.And if he “can’t have you”…declaring that “no one else can”.All these threats link to lethal acts…that many of us don’t understand.For stalkers are dangerous…and many commit homicide…then turn on themselves…as they then commit suicide.For these abusers can’t let go…and stalk their innocent prey…so it’s for all these victims…and their safety that we now pray.© Secret Angel and The Abuse Expose’ with Secret Angel, 2015.Dear Lord, You see the many victims whose lives are in danger from the anger and rage that has settled in the hearts of many abusers. Deliver them from this evil and set them free from the abusers in their lives. Surround them with Your Army of Angels to protect them from their enemy who wants to inflict harm and remove the stalkers from their midst so they will no longer be able to incite fear in the hearts of these victims. Bring healing and restoration to all so they can walk in Peace with You… in Jesus’ Name. Amen.
Source: Stalking in Domestic Violence