I’m up in Oregon today taking my daughter back to college and helping her move into her apartment, and just coincidentally we’re here for the eclipse. Also coincidentally, but I think auspiciously, I am making the third in a series of three announcements.
The first announcement was for The Childress Institute which will be offering Training and Certification in AB-PA.
The second announcement was for the Contingent Visitation Schedule, a Strategic family systems intervention that makes the child’s custody visitation time with the allied narcissistic/(borderline) parent contingent on the child being symptom-free.
Within the structure of the Contingent Visitation Schedule, if the child begins to show elevated symptoms of concern as documented on the Parent-Child Rating Scale, then the child’s custody visitation time with the allied narcissistic/(borderline) will be reduced in order to reduce the pathogenic influence of this parent’s problematic parenting on the child, and the child’s…
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This is a powerful message that I wanted to share. Many of us have been stopped by the voices of the enemy… but it is time to rise up as God’s Army of Daughters to accomplish what He has called us to do.
I see a company of daughters who have been stuck and beaten down in the trenches of battle. They have been held back, pushed down and told to stay quiet. They have been overlooked, deemed unworthy and judged. They have been caught in the middle of the crossfire, seemingly trapped in the ditches and constrained by the enemy. The battle has been long and fierce, with the enemy throwing his best at them, and with every strike he has been lying to them and telling them they are worthless and weak – luring them…
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Blessed Savior, guide us today to live as You intended. Do not let us fall prey to power struggles, but help us to be true ambassadors of Your love. Help us today to find ways to listen to those who are struggling along their journey …..
As we go through this day, we need to be touched by You so that we can receive the wisdom needed to discern more clearly what we should be about in our church, our community and our world. May we be strong and courageous as we deal with the powers and principalities of this world that oppress the innocent …..
May we, the body of believers that are Your Church, be a Light unto the nations that shows them a better way. May we all be mindful this day to pray for those less fortunate, the sick, the afflicted, the oppressed. Grant that they…
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“Winning the Battle of the Mind”
Satan has declared war on God’s children, and our minds are the battlefield in which the war is won or lost. Satan loves to put wrong thoughts into our minds –thoughts that are not in agreement with God’s Word; hoping we will meditate on them long enough for them to become reality in our lives. And we know when we linger in ungodly thoughts, negative thoughts, and self-defeating thoughts; soon our health is declining and our behavior is affected as well ….
We can cast down those wrong thoughts and bring every thought captive into the obedience of Jesus Christ. This is the instruction. Yet, be thankful that you can choose your own thoughts and you are not a prisoner to whatever kinds of thoughts just fall into your mind. Through prayer, we can cast down all thoughts, feelings, and ideas that are defeatist…
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Do not be vengeful,
don’t try to get even
do not hold a grudge
for any kind of reason.
Do not be spiteful,
don’t be merciless
do not be cruel
or become heartless.
Do not be resentful,
don’t be envious
don’t be embroiled
in others pettiness.
Do not be hateful,
don’t be critical
do not be unforgiving
nor become cynical.
Do not be vengeful
don’t hold a grudge
for God one day . . .
every thought will judge!
“Thou shalt not avenge,
nor bear any grudge
against the children
of thy people,
but thou shalt
love thy neighbour
as thyself: I am the Lord.”
King James Version
Deborah Ann Belka
A new booklet is now available through Amazon that will become an integral part of the solution:
This booklet has 30 pages of text description and 25 pages of Appendices. The first 20 pages of text describes the pathology. The next 10 pages of text describes the structure of the Contingent Visitation Schedule (a treatment-related solution to “parental alienation”; AB-PA).
You will want to get this booklet into the hands of all family law attorneys, judges, guardians ad litem, parenting coordinators, minor’s counsels, and “reunification therapists” everywhere.
This booklet will not only explain the pathology to them, it will explain the solution; a Contingent Visitation Schedule.
The Contingent Visitation schedule is a Strategic family systems intervention designed to reverse how the child’s symptomatic rejection of the targeted parent confers power within the family system (described in pages 20-26 of the booklet).
While the standard…
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